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Jimmy, Come Out and Play: Releasing Your Inner Child for a Lighter, Happier 2021
My new year’s resolution for 2021 is a simple one, although it’s going to take a little work and lots of daily reminders to put it in...
jamesbriankerr
Jan 2, 20216 min read


Thanksgiving, COVID-Style: Giving Thanks in the Year That Wasn’t
It’s Thanksgiving next week and I, for one, am not feeling particularly in the holiday spirit. I come from a large family and normally we...
jamesbriankerr
Nov 20, 20205 min read


Note to Self: Today I Will Not Talk Poorly of You
Dear Self, First, an apology. Yesterday I said some pretty mean things to you. It was Monday and I don’t particularly like Mondays, and...
jamesbriankerr
Aug 5, 20203 min read


Let’s Take a Moment to Thank all the Good Dads out There.
Published: Elephant Journal June 20, 2020 You’re not rich. You’re not famous. They don’t see you on television or read about you in their...
jamesbriankerr
Jun 20, 20204 min read


Getting to Equanimity
I was driving to the grocery store the other day and made the mistake of pulling in front of someone who apparently thought she owned the...
jamesbriankerr
Apr 18, 20204 min read


We are Battling Two Enemies & only One of them is a Virus.
These are dark days for humankind. Published: Elephant Journal March 31, 2020 A dreaded virus has been let out of the bottle and creeps...
jamesbriankerr
Mar 31, 20205 min read


Wrestling with my (Dying) Father: Lessons on Fatherhood from a Hospice Bed.
Published: Elephant Journal February 2, 2020 It was the longest night of my life. A night filled with surreal and phantasmagorical...
jamesbriankerr
Feb 2, 20206 min read


“What if he’s Turning into a Butterfly?”—Thoughts on Grief as I Witnessed my Father’s Passing.
Published: Elephant Journal January 14, 2020 I sat by my father’s deathbed watching him labor for breath, wondering which one would be...
jamesbriankerr
Jan 14, 20204 min read


How Losing a Parent Changes You for the Holidays.
Published: Elephant Journal December 23, 2019 It’s your first holiday since losing a parent—and everything is the same and yet different....
jamesbriankerr
Dec 23, 20193 min read


Letting Go of Painful Emotions
Forty years of dealing with intense and at times turbulent emotions have taught me the importance of letting go. I have a Hamlet mind....
jamesbriankerr
Jun 16, 20194 min read


Watching the Train of Troubles
I sit this morning during my meditation watching the train of troubles pass by. Worries about my kids. My parents. My job. Things I need...
jamesbriankerr
Apr 13, 20191 min read


CAT Scans, Chemo, and Infusion Balls: Surviving the Cancer Journey
Published: Elephant Journal January 26, 2019 “Grit is the stubborn refusal to quit.” – Jonah Lehrer We tend to think of life as a journey...
jamesbriankerr
Jan 26, 20195 min read


Taming the Taskmaster Mind
Who rules your life – you or your mind? An odd question, you might say. What’s the difference? I am my mind. My mind is me. Not true....
jamesbriankerr
Oct 13, 20184 min read


Trash Day (A Poem)
I The black bear’s got me again. Walked out this morning and there he was, before the men had made their rounds, rooting through the...
jamesbriankerr
Oct 11, 20183 min read


Battling the Twin Enemies of Doubt and Distraction
“Whether you believe you can do a thing or not, you are right.” – Henry Ford Of all the self-defeating habits that steal our happiness...
jamesbriankerr
Sep 16, 20183 min read


Coming into the Clear
Dear friends and readers, My apologies for not blogging recently. I took on an expanded role at my company a few months ago and I haven’t...
jamesbriankerr
Aug 18, 20183 min read


When FedEx Brings a Hero
We all know that both good and evil live in the human heart, because we see varying amounts of each in the people and situations we...
jamesbriankerr
Jul 15, 20184 min read


Death By Identity: Why Are Men More Prone to Suicide Than Women?
The other day a friend gave me the tragic news that a former colleague of ours had died. He had recently lost his job, and so he rented a...
jamesbriankerr
May 20, 20183 min read


Nature's Lessons In Patience
It’s a few days before the official start of spring here in southeastern Pennsylvania but winter is very much in control. We are still...
jamesbriankerr
Mar 17, 20184 min read


The Stark, Simple Beauties of Winter
Our lives are frittered away by detail. Simplify, simplify. – Henry David Thoreau A new year has begun and so, for me, the annual purging...
jamesbriankerr
Jan 5, 20182 min read
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